Comments on: Too Picky or Not Picky Enough? https://thyblackman.com/2011/12/28/too-picky-or-not-picky-enough/ Black News 24/7 Online for the Black Community. Thu, 29 Dec 2011 15:53:06 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 By: Mack https://thyblackman.com/2011/12/28/too-picky-or-not-picky-enough/comment-page-1/#comment-16552 Thu, 29 Dec 2011 15:53:06 +0000 http://thyblackman.com/?p=21760#comment-16552 Good article.

People seem to have very unrealistic expectations about relationships nowadays. I’m sure the humongous wisdom gap between our elders and ourselves has much to do with this. We used to get good wisdom from grandparents. Now we have grandmothers no older than 30… and there ain’t much wisdom you can grasp from a person fresh out their 20’s.

The best relationships work because both people involved are committed to making it work. It’s not 50/50… it’s more like 100/100. You gotta go all in and go hard for the long haul. And people nowadays want instant gratification. They’re not willing to wait or work for the perfect relationship. They pretty much want it ready made.

]]> By: Giosincere https://thyblackman.com/2011/12/28/too-picky-or-not-picky-enough/comment-page-1/#comment-16525 Wed, 28 Dec 2011 23:58:50 +0000 http://thyblackman.com/?p=21760#comment-16525 Amen to the way you closed the article.
I agree. Love can be emotional and cerebral.
We must love intelligently.
Not many take an internal look before they
find themselves in another relationship that they don’t belong in.
But it is important that we do so the cycle in repetition of choosing
anyone who looks at us
because we’re seeking love and affection.

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