You cannot as women demand equal rights and privileges then turn around and question WHY you are not being “taken care of” by men!

Black women do have higher rates of STDs and are statistically more likely to be single parents- but this is NOT ” the evil black mans fault” ALONE- birth control and condoms to prevent disease are cheap and EASY TO GET. No one is forcing you to sleep with the expensive car driving ” baller”, no one is making you have babies with the local drug dealer or gangbanger- you black women are implicit in your own self destruction by choosing deficient relationships!

That “no good black men” is a sorry assed EXCUSE for your own equally sorry decision making! And stop judging a man’a suitability by the amount of money in his pocket! So what if you have a college degree and work in an office- it’s more than likely that a black man who is a plumber makes MORE money than you anyway!!!

Find love and respect from a respectful man- period. No drug dealers, no chasing athletes showing up at the local night clubs , and NO babies out of wedlock- what the hell makes you THINK a single man wants to take care of another mans child ( especially when you ignorantly continue to have a relationship with that dead beat dad ???!!!)

Lastly, black women- start showing the SAME level of respect you demand to black men- less funky rude attitudes, more politeness and make your list of demands from a potential mate clear( no drugs, no baby daddies, no criminal behavior, employed, and sexually responsible)- that’s not too much to ask or give, is it?

But I digress- anything that I pointed out is already obvious to MANY black women – they simply don’t want to hear it as it requires “responsibility” and not being able to play the “victim”; sadly so many of you grow up with no father around that you do not understand what a successful relationship is with a black man, or any man for that matter, and you are often taught by other damaged black women to be pessimistic about relationships with decent men, or allow yourselves to be dissuaded from a good relationship by your own dysfunctional girlfriends(“herd mentality”)

With black women it’s the same story over and over again (SORRY!!). Before you judge me let me tell you I have never dated a white woman, have talked to plenty of black woman ranging from different social classes and backgrounds. So believe me when I say I have never given up on them. I am not gay but I am spoken for. It’s simple insecurities that hurt black women. And the black women with this knowledge do not want to share it.

All in all Black women will remain angry aslong as this cycle continues. I know these things have been happening for a while but I put some of the blame on the images that Black Women portray on tv. In all honesty these reality shows just further the stereotype that black’s always want something for free, too lazy to get their own, and will react loudly and ghetto when they don’t get their way or disagree with a decision that has been made.

There should be no problem with the person you chose to be with the rest of your life or for a period of time (white,black, mexican, chinese,or whatever)aslong as that person makes you happy and treats you right. But until people get that through their heads someone will always be angry.

Furor and rage carries with them vast amounts of human energy, if used positively, they can accomplish tasks of great significance. Of course this energy, left unchecked brings upon us unintended negative consequents which makes us look foolish.
Ecclesiastes 7:9 Be not hasty in thy spirit to be angry: for anger resteth in the bosom of fools.

Use your anger my sister to better yourself and do not wallow in it. Remember, you are God’s creation and a beautiful creation indeed. “You are no lesser then the trees and the stars. You have a right to be here, to occupy the space you are in. God put you here and you were no accident. Find your purpose and pursue it!!! http://www.sslumpsum.com