Wm

For whatever the reasons, and there’s many, bullies feel a sense of entitlement or they it excites them to have a”gang” to help bring misery to others. Sorta like follow the leader. And leaders seek control.

There was a program “Gangster Girls” that was aired some years back. An older female was interviewed and she stated that she went around making others miserable because she was miserable. Her family was poor and they couldn’t afford food or pay bills and there was always fighting going on and that caused her not only misery but she was also angry. Shows that kids don’t know shit. Her and her family will never be the only poor people. There are plenty of poor people. She and her family aren’t the only ones who had/have trouble making ends meet. But bullies are selfish, narcissistic, and own very few brain cells.

Their way(s) of thinking remains with them staight into old age. They’re most ignorant at this stage because even though they are elderly, they are just as immature as kids.

IDK if anyone knows it or not, but young bullies have help being bullies other than their kids the kids they hang with.

Older people instigate the actions of a bully without being seen or heard. Young bullies protect the older instigator by not telling on them. The older person will instructor the bully to “not mention my name” or “don’t tell my involvement.”

I put bullies in the same category as gang members. When the majority of young bullies get older, they’ll become gang members so they can keep doing what they know how to do best: bullying. Some never grow up and out of bullying because its better/easier to remain the same than change. Changing one’s self means admitting to wrongdoing. I’ve got so many older relatives who still exert bully-type behavior. And since they’re right about everything and they do/have done no wrong, its really to late for them to change themselves.

I really have no choice but to stay far away from them or deal with ’em at a couple of arms length. I don’t believe in that “keep your friends close and your enemies closer.” No way do I want an old bully close to me. Oh yeah, I think of bullies as enemies. If bullies/enemies/gang members were in my personal space everyday then I’d be arguing and fighting everyday because ignorant folks, no matter their age, feel as though they can say anything to you. I don’t think so. Family ot not, if you’re against