Comments on: The myth, the lies, the truth: A real black woman…

By: Ramses

Ramses — Wed, 12 Dec 2012 17:42:52 +0000

It’s funny when Black Men were being dogged out by the media (with the assistance I might add of black women) there was no problem. Now men have their own legitimate criticisms towards black women and now we’re apart of the conspiracy to destroy black women….what a joke. This is not about physicality but the notion of women being angry. What man wants to be around that. See most of these dudes can’t look pass your ass to focus on the issue. No matter what color you are, men don’t like angry, bitter women. These women make you feel dead inside, not alive. What man wants that? Black women don’t own the standard of beauty. There are plenty of females globally who exhibit beauty. Get off this racist “black is beauty” trip and everyone else is ugly. Just because you’re a black woman doesn’t mean you’re the most glamorous item on the shelf. Seen plenty of hurt black females that I wouldn’t be with. And last time I checked, I don’t see any really attractive black chicks clamoring for not so hot black dudes either. So stop fronting. This is not a beauty issue. It’s a mentality issue. Does you personality allow for you to coexist with a man. I don’t need media to tell me that black women are bitter and angry. I’ve experienced it with them long enough to know this. I don’t want to hear about slavery as your justification as to why you’re angry and bitter. Last time I checked, I don’t remember any of you females being raped by “massa.” I don’t recall you being locked in chains and sold to different plantations. Black women want the media to love them but that’s silly. Why would you covet the love of media when media is ran by gay males (usually white or jewish). This statement says it all”

So to say we are all bitter or even a great majority of us is not true. Are we angry? Yes that we are.

Anger is not considered a positive characteristic when it comes to trying to date women ladies. The model Naomi Campbell is very beautiful. But I wouldn’t marry her or approach her to continue the human race. That woman is angry, physically abusive on all types of levels. Hitting her servants with cell phones and that type of shit. So before you defend black women, take a look at those like her and ask yourself is their some validity to what’s being said out here about us? I would tell you yes. But I’m a Man, what do I know? Lol

By: Brandee

Brandee — Sat, 17 Mar 2012 19:15:29 +0000

Love it.

By: Arthur

Arthur — Tue, 18 Oct 2011 22:20:07 +0000

Great article! I could not have said it better myself. In fact, I could not have said it because I am a man. But I DO second that emotion.

By: Eleanie

Eleanie — Tue, 18 Oct 2011 17:48:42 +0000

I loves this one. We are not perfect and we all definately are not bitter.

By: Shanay

Shanay — Tue, 18 Oct 2011 16:48:53 +0000

Amazing article!!! This allows black women to appreciate who they are and realize, that we are the ish!!! People allow their ignorance, and fear of our capabilites, to distort their memories of how great we are and how far we have come. Not only are we BEAUTIFUL, but if you look around, people everywhere are striving to be like us. I am proud to be A black sista, and wouldn’t trade it for the world. Not only that, but I am proud of the author, who happens to be my GORGEOUS, POWERFUL MOTHER 🙂 Love you mummy! Keep up the great work.

By: KAYLA

KAYLA — Tue, 18 Oct 2011 02:04:32 +0000

I like that Gurl! Thanks for being cogent.

“The Truth:

A Black woman is a lot of things we are strong, but not without fault, we tread forward but not without heartache, we listen without judgment and we feel pain just like everyone else. We are humble when required and we stand and fight when asked. We have been robbed of our heritage, raped of our bodies and disrespected by many and still we rise to the occasion. We set aside all of the things that society thinks makes us different and show the world that we are all the same. We cry, we laugh we have shortcomings and downfalls and yet we still hold our heads high. We are disrespected by the very men that we have given life to and yet, when they need us we are there. We are proud of our heritage, proud of our ancestors and know that without black women of the past none of us would have a future. We are not failures, we are not ugly, we are not all prostitutes and drug-addicts we are black women, and I am a black woman.

We are the creation of God the epitome of beauty and why Botox became so popular in the first place. I am not what you say I am or what society has made me to be. I am the granddaughter of a strong black woman from Alabama who could not read but she still boarded a bus with her three children and came up north for better life, I am the only child of her eldest daughter and I am the future of my children. I have paid the price already for those who will come after me and I will continue to move forward, continue to have a voice, and to speak the truth and stand proud in the fact that God made me black and quite frankly, ain’t nothing wrong with that.
And these are just thoughts from a sista….

Staff Writer; Nicole Moro”

By: J. Cups

J. Cups — Mon, 17 Oct 2011 23:37:51 +0000

Black Women, I really don’t have to defend who,what,how and why you are, just look around at all the other types of women that are trying to be,act,look and sound like you are. You are the Flower garden of every man’s dream, no woman on earth garners as much attention as you or is desired as much as you by men of all races. Your shape,lips,cheeks,eyes,forehead,legs and hips are copied by all women who want to look like you. And, get this; No women on earth has the Beautiful skin tones or hue that you have, nooooo not any!!! Yes, I understand that Males are attracted to Females, that’s the way nature meant it to be. But, I have never been able to get past the variety in the flower garden of my Sister Girls (Black Women) to want any other race of women. OH, I’ve been expose to all types of Women. For the brothers who have a problem understanding who and how wonderful you are, don’t worry about them, most of them are not true brothers, they are of the same mindset as Justice C. Thomas and Herman Cain. To all of the Black Queens, don’t let the negative of what others think of you be more important to you than what you think of yourself. P.S. And what I think of you. **)

By: James

James — Mon, 17 Oct 2011 18:49:23 +0000

This is great article and ; covers all the fine points of a BLACK WOMAN. Yes, a lot of black men seem to try to make up for their insecurities with women by getting a white woman; more power to all you brotha’s who think “arm candy; eye candy, and main squeeze” are just an adjective to the real issue. I prefer and choose the black woman over any other race of woman on earth; not because I’m a black man but, because I was raised to respect, love, adore, compliment, support, and lift the black woman (INTERNALLY—-the outside is just the outside—the inside is where the work is at).

I’m not racist or prejudiced; I just have my own personal choices and reasons for the EBONY QUEEN, as opposed to the “white queen”; at least that’s what was printed in the forward of this post.

Thanks ladies for your input on this article.

James.

By: hoodgirl

hoodgirl — Mon, 17 Oct 2011 14:21:13 +0000

Great Article!

By: Bryneen Gary

Bryneen Gary — Mon, 17 Oct 2011 07:34:14 +0000

Excellent! Some of the Black Men out there, don’t make things better by jumping on the bandwagon. It seem like Posts like this, don’t get as much comments, as the negative ones. There must be something so Great about Black Women, that we know nothing about. Have a Great week!