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					<description><![CDATA[This movie did look controversial to me. I still haven&#039;t saw it though.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This movie did look controversial to me. I still haven&#8217;t saw it though.</p>
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		By: Julia Browder		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Sep 2011 19:52:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I read the book, but will probably not see the movie.  I am a white female, 71 years old and I am very offended by the book and can see why the black people would be offended.  So what if it is portrayed as what actually happened in the 1960&#039;s, does that make it any better to open wounds of the black people who suffered so much back then?  I keep hearing &quot;rave reviews&quot; about how wonderful the book and movie are and I cannot for the life of me understand why they &quot;love&quot; seeing other people suffer so.  It is rumored that a black man in Mississippi was dragged from his home and killed by white men because of this movie.  I pray this is not so, but when (if ever) will men stop being inhumane to other men and women?  I totally agree with Linda Ridley on this one!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I read the book, but will probably not see the movie.  I am a white female, 71 years old and I am very offended by the book and can see why the black people would be offended.  So what if it is portrayed as what actually happened in the 1960&#8217;s, does that make it any better to open wounds of the black people who suffered so much back then?  I keep hearing &#8220;rave reviews&#8221; about how wonderful the book and movie are and I cannot for the life of me understand why they &#8220;love&#8221; seeing other people suffer so.  It is rumored that a black man in Mississippi was dragged from his home and killed by white men because of this movie.  I pray this is not so, but when (if ever) will men stop being inhumane to other men and women?  I totally agree with Linda Ridley on this one!</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Sep 2011 18:07:35 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Give me a break... how long are we going to have to hear racism this and racism that ... it&#039;s your racism that is keeping it alive, have you ever thought of that?  How can blacks still be opressed with the likes of Oprah and Mrs. Obama?  It&#039;s just another person who doesn&#039;t want to work for the recognition and is blaming it on racism.  Your stuff probably wasn&#039;t for the publishers because it just wasn&#039;t good.  Ever think of that?  Oh no, it can&#039;t be you... it has to be racism.  For God Sake woman!  Go eat a chocolate pie will ya?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Give me a break&#8230; how long are we going to have to hear racism this and racism that &#8230; it&#8217;s your racism that is keeping it alive, have you ever thought of that?  How can blacks still be opressed with the likes of Oprah and Mrs. Obama?  It&#8217;s just another person who doesn&#8217;t want to work for the recognition and is blaming it on racism.  Your stuff probably wasn&#8217;t for the publishers because it just wasn&#8217;t good.  Ever think of that?  Oh no, it can&#8217;t be you&#8230; it has to be racism.  For God Sake woman!  Go eat a chocolate pie will ya?</p>
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		By: Patsy		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Aug 2011 15:20:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Joanna, you are soooo right!  People who think that novels or books are just fiction are naïve.  Most movies are political!  Jewish people are very protective of their image.  They know the power of the media.  It was very instrumental for the holocaust same thing with Rwanda&#039;s genocide.  You will never see in a movie a Jewish man with a kipa in prison.  Why do we celebrate being portrayed as people who are subordinates?  I can&#039;t stand the official picture of the movie which speak volume of white supramecy.  It seems that we still have modern minstrels who accept to be subjugated.  Their mindset goes probably like this:  Why should I care as long as I get big money?  When are we going to wake up and smell the coffee???]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Joanna, you are soooo right!  People who think that novels or books are just fiction are naïve.  Most movies are political!  Jewish people are very protective of their image.  They know the power of the media.  It was very instrumental for the holocaust same thing with Rwanda&#8217;s genocide.  You will never see in a movie a Jewish man with a kipa in prison.  Why do we celebrate being portrayed as people who are subordinates?  I can&#8217;t stand the official picture of the movie which speak volume of white supramecy.  It seems that we still have modern minstrels who accept to be subjugated.  Their mindset goes probably like this:  Why should I care as long as I get big money?  When are we going to wake up and smell the coffee???</p>
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		By: Ellen		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Aug 2011 07:34:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I agree with a lot of the above: This is fiction.  I also am tired of the victim perspective.  You have to, at a certain point, integrate the past into the present and live with it from another perspective, one that does not involve pitting blacks and whites against each other. That is what you&#039;re doing.  Did you realize that?

I liked this novel and look forward to the movie but I did notice it was a little too shiny.  But again, it was a novel.  It reminded me a little of Sue Monk Kidd&#039;s &quot;A Secret Life of Bees&quot;.  It had that same quasi fantasy/ hero worship/ mythical quality attached to the black women.  You aren&#039;t going to take away that perspective because it&#039;s a white perspective, it&#039;s how people cope with the atrocities of our history, and it&#039;s better than the historical alternative.  

And as far as why certain books are mainstream or not...  Seriously?  How could you possibly think an autobiographical book on being black in America today would touch a book of fiction that allows us to engage in and deal with our often buried and still sordid and repressed past?  Stockett&#039;s book is going to appeal to a much larger audience because it&#039;s fiction, and because it deals with subject matter that still needs to be dealt with.  White people (as a whole) have never really been capable of owning what happened-- in it&#039;s entirety.  Collectively, we were forced to change, kicking and screaming, and then once we were over the hump, we found it too painful to look back.  How could we? Could you?  Stockett&#039;s novel has everybody coming out okay.  These sorts of novels always show the black women as not just heros, but SUPER heros.  We need to believe that because we need to believe they were okay back then, that it really wasn&#039;t that bad, that they possessed some sort of absurd strength that made it possible for them to survive.  The fact that people just rise (or not) to whatever is put in front of them is not very romantic.  YOUR book is not very romantic.  If we read your book, about what it&#039;s really like, we can&#039;t have our superhero fantasy.  (And really, neither can you.)  We all need our myths...

So don&#039;t hate the book and the popularity.   Everybody is trying to cope with the horrors of the past.  Pain is pain.  It&#039;s getting better every day.  Stockett&#039;s book isn&#039;t so horrible.  It&#039;s just a means to an end and really, it&#039;s  a very nice story.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with a lot of the above: This is fiction.  I also am tired of the victim perspective.  You have to, at a certain point, integrate the past into the present and live with it from another perspective, one that does not involve pitting blacks and whites against each other. That is what you&#8217;re doing.  Did you realize that?</p>
<p>I liked this novel and look forward to the movie but I did notice it was a little too shiny.  But again, it was a novel.  It reminded me a little of Sue Monk Kidd&#8217;s &#8220;A Secret Life of Bees&#8221;.  It had that same quasi fantasy/ hero worship/ mythical quality attached to the black women.  You aren&#8217;t going to take away that perspective because it&#8217;s a white perspective, it&#8217;s how people cope with the atrocities of our history, and it&#8217;s better than the historical alternative.  </p>
<p>And as far as why certain books are mainstream or not&#8230;  Seriously?  How could you possibly think an autobiographical book on being black in America today would touch a book of fiction that allows us to engage in and deal with our often buried and still sordid and repressed past?  Stockett&#8217;s book is going to appeal to a much larger audience because it&#8217;s fiction, and because it deals with subject matter that still needs to be dealt with.  White people (as a whole) have never really been capable of owning what happened&#8211; in it&#8217;s entirety.  Collectively, we were forced to change, kicking and screaming, and then once we were over the hump, we found it too painful to look back.  How could we? Could you?  Stockett&#8217;s novel has everybody coming out okay.  These sorts of novels always show the black women as not just heros, but SUPER heros.  We need to believe that because we need to believe they were okay back then, that it really wasn&#8217;t that bad, that they possessed some sort of absurd strength that made it possible for them to survive.  The fact that people just rise (or not) to whatever is put in front of them is not very romantic.  YOUR book is not very romantic.  If we read your book, about what it&#8217;s really like, we can&#8217;t have our superhero fantasy.  (And really, neither can you.)  We all need our myths&#8230;</p>
<p>So don&#8217;t hate the book and the popularity.   Everybody is trying to cope with the horrors of the past.  Pain is pain.  It&#8217;s getting better every day.  Stockett&#8217;s book isn&#8217;t so horrible.  It&#8217;s just a means to an end and really, it&#8217;s  a very nice story.</p>
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		By: Diana		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Aug 2011 22:06:17 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I knew of the controversy, and went to see the movie. Have you actually watched it or read the book, or did you just climb on the cause without actually experiencing it? 

I am in a mixed race marriage and have a mixed race child. I LOVED the movie. I saw black women crying, and talking about the movie afterward, and NOT in anger or sadness. The movie is FICTION. The maids are the heroines. I could feel badly about how the white people are portrayed rejuvenating racist views of all whites as racists, but I just say NO to being made to feel that way. It&#039;s fiction, it&#039;s enjoyable and tells a good story. Do all novels now need to be documentaries? I don&#039;t know about you, but as an academic, I do not get my research from novels, and I do not allow my students to, either.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I knew of the controversy, and went to see the movie. Have you actually watched it or read the book, or did you just climb on the cause without actually experiencing it? </p>
<p>I am in a mixed race marriage and have a mixed race child. I LOVED the movie. I saw black women crying, and talking about the movie afterward, and NOT in anger or sadness. The movie is FICTION. The maids are the heroines. I could feel badly about how the white people are portrayed rejuvenating racist views of all whites as racists, but I just say NO to being made to feel that way. It&#8217;s fiction, it&#8217;s enjoyable and tells a good story. Do all novels now need to be documentaries? I don&#8217;t know about you, but as an academic, I do not get my research from novels, and I do not allow my students to, either.</p>
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		By: Joanna		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Joanna]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Aug 2011 23:35:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This is just another form of exploitation. Why should a white woman profit from the struggle of black woman? Black people should boycot this movie, or buy it on bootleg DVD.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is just another form of exploitation. Why should a white woman profit from the struggle of black woman? Black people should boycot this movie, or buy it on bootleg DVD.</p>
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		By: Vicky Jordan		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Vicky Jordan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Aug 2011 13:42:17 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Why oh why do people insist on remaining victims?  Is it a cultural way of life that you pass down from generation to generation?  That&#039;s the way it appears to &quot;white people&quot;.  Just so you know.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why oh why do people insist on remaining victims?  Is it a cultural way of life that you pass down from generation to generation?  That&#8217;s the way it appears to &#8220;white people&#8221;.  Just so you know.</p>
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		By: planetofsong		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Aug 2011 08:58:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hey, guess what? Welcome to the real world, it sucks. It sucked for just about everyone but the Elite, since circa  - like forever! You don&#039;t get a bow out from general suckiness. Read All of history, not just the parts we like to victimize ourself with. Chris Rock might have said it best when he said he never saw Native Americans at a Red Lobster. Alice Walker had death threats for portraying black men as abusers in The Color Purple. The problem was, it was historically True. 
Boo-hoo. All the time. No others cry foul every minute except jews about the holocaust, except they didn&#039;t get the worst of it either, in historical terms, considering Pol Pot and Stalin.
Don&#039;t people get tired of being victims forever? Cant we just move on. Is everything an affront? Caught up in stupidity? 
Knock it off. It&#039;s a damn movie, like any other stupid movie out of millions of dumb movies.
How about saving for your kids education, thinking about investments? 
You think YOU are screwed, everyone is screwed now, no matter what race. Oh, you might think it good, white kids are committing suicide  in droves.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, guess what? Welcome to the real world, it sucks. It sucked for just about everyone but the Elite, since circa  &#8211; like forever! You don&#8217;t get a bow out from general suckiness. Read All of history, not just the parts we like to victimize ourself with. Chris Rock might have said it best when he said he never saw Native Americans at a Red Lobster. Alice Walker had death threats for portraying black men as abusers in The Color Purple. The problem was, it was historically True.<br />
Boo-hoo. All the time. No others cry foul every minute except jews about the holocaust, except they didn&#8217;t get the worst of it either, in historical terms, considering Pol Pot and Stalin.<br />
Don&#8217;t people get tired of being victims forever? Cant we just move on. Is everything an affront? Caught up in stupidity?<br />
Knock it off. It&#8217;s a damn movie, like any other stupid movie out of millions of dumb movies.<br />
How about saving for your kids education, thinking about investments?<br />
You think YOU are screwed, everyone is screwed now, no matter what race. Oh, you might think it good, white kids are committing suicide  in droves.</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Aug 2011 04:27:17 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I love this review!  Keep up your excellent work!!!]]></description>
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