FACT #1) Asian men have the highest marriages rates in the US so I dont know where that 15% you stated in your article comes from. By age 40, 8% of Asian men have never been married as compared to 13% for White men never married or 25% for Black men never married. Just because more Asian women are marrying White men, it doesnt Asian men arent marrying other Asian women.
Source : US Census
http://www.census.gov/population/socdemo/marital-hist/p70-97/tab01.pdf

FACT #2) Regarding that white women ‘shun’ Asian men, Asian men in the US have almost twice the interracial marriage rates to White women than Black man to White women in the US. And I said rates (per capita or percentage-wise) not total since Asians are a little under 5 percent of the US population. From wikipedia :

Source : http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interracial_marriage_in_the_United_States

A) Black Husband/White Wife = 319,000
B) Asian Husband/White Wife = 219,000

Since Asians are 5% of the US population and Blacks are 13% (you can do the math yourself), the average Asian male in the US is almost 2x more likely to be married to a White women than the average Black male is to be married to a White women.

FACT #3) More than half of the US Asian Population (i dont know the exact breakdown but I guess it is about 65% immigrant/35% born in the US) are 1st generation immigrants. Most of these immigrant Asians (men) have English as a second language, are culturally ‘Asian’, are typically older, immigrated to the US already married, etc. And when you isolate US-born Asian men only, meaning those who can speak English fluently and raised in American culture (you can find the sources for the below at the bottom of the Pew Research study) :

A) Over 41% US-Born (Native) Asian men married someone of a different race/ethnicity in 2008
B) From 1980 to 2008, the interracial marriage rates for US-Born (Native) Asian men have hovered around 40 percent
C) Chart : http://i51.tinypic.com/2edpao4.jpg

Source : US Census/Pew Research
http://pewsocialtrends.org/assets/pdf/755-marrying-out.pdf

FACT #4) In addition, Asian men in the US have the exact same marriage patterns as Hispanic Men in the US. Low intermarriage for immigrants and highe intermarriage for those born in the US.

Chart : http://i52.tinypic.com/2en9rw7.jpg

Source : US Census/Pew Research
http://pewsocialtrends.org/assets/pdf/755-marrying-out.pdf

So everything single thing you used to attack Asian men in the US in your article is factually incorrect. It is based on your own stereotypes/biases and not on any reality. Even your reference to Wesley Yang NY Magazine article misses the points he was making. Disappointed …

Darnell J