It’s much better to boycott the ADVERTISERS who sponsor commercial time during those games. Not buying NFL gear does not make much of an impact. But when you decide to pressure advertising sponsors?? That’s when people listen and take you seriously as Black people who know how to use their economic power to sway change!

Naturally, human beings almost always prefer a mate who reminds them of their mother/father. This is the order of things.

When a Black man with a Black mama says he doesn’t like women who look more like his mama, YES, I have a problem with that. That is the kind of self-hating individual I tend to avoid.

This isn’t about “preference”, and you young bucks trying to pass it off as that are just foolish. Any psychiatrist worth his salt would say this man is suffering from self-contempt.

I feel sorry for the woman who has to deal with that sort of psychosis.

Many Sisters may possess the outter beauty initially, but lack all the essentials that one aquire when they have a father and mother raising them and demostrating how a relationship should be. Too many of our young black people are being raised by just their mothers. This scenario create the “strong black women” too strong to love and comform to the male/female relationship. It also create the “lazy black man” that sit around and expects the women to do everything.

As Black people, we have to examine this issue objectively and honestly. I grew up in Connecticut with my mom and my syblings. As a young man, I had to seek instructions outside of my conventional family to assure myself that I will be the kind of man that is condusive to compete in our culture and be competitive in the business world; otherwise, I would have been typical Brotha that makes babies and leave them to their moms to raise and ultimately continue this bad cycle that our black race is experiencing.

I challenge our sisters (black women) to be the best that you can be; stay beatiful both intellectually and physically. Concentrate on health and fitness. Do not be the object of the heaviest, loudest, rowdiest person in the room. It’s okay to examine other race of women to get tips. If it works for them, it will work for you. I did not have all the examples around me and had to look outside my race to become a successful man.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2_3iNY7LS4Y&feature=player_embedded

Haynesworth may be an idiot but he has the right to his happiness just like Halle Berry or Thandie Newtown or Naomi Campbell or Mellody Hobson do.

Making a parallel between personal sexual/physical preference to job discrimination is not a very useful comparison. That is unless one wishes to pass a constitutional amendment requiring people (or to be honest-rich black men) to date, marry and reproduce according to a strict set of guidelines laid out by the EEOC. Good luck with that.

Do you see black men ranting when non-black men marry black women? Why is this argument always being done by black females. Get over yourselves and step your game up.