Comments on: The State of Black Love? https://thyblackman.com/2011/04/14/the-state-of-black-love/ Black News 24/7 Online for the Black Community. Thu, 14 Apr 2011 23:54:20 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.1.4 By: Gerald Layne https://thyblackman.com/2011/04/14/the-state-of-black-love/comment-page-1/#comment-2522 Thu, 14 Apr 2011 23:54:20 +0000 http://thyblackman.com/?p=5036#comment-2522 As a husband, father and head of my black household I really find relationship-coward black men very disgusting in their ways of thinking. At the same time I think it is equally discusting on what black women define as a man and what they accomadate to in our society. The condition of the community is a direct result of the lack leadership of men at the behest of social engineering and manipulation. What we have is women rewarding the wrong type of man with reproductive access and the expense of the next generation of the black community.

]]> By: Sara https://thyblackman.com/2011/04/14/the-state-of-black-love/comment-page-1/#comment-2515 Thu, 14 Apr 2011 20:07:28 +0000 http://thyblackman.com/?p=5036#comment-2515 Your commentary is immensely sad, especially coming from a man. What is really sad and disappointing is that, the likes of you (blackmen), have spent your youth having unrealistic expectations of the type of women that you want and hope to spend your life with, consequently bypassing good hearted and loving blackwomen in your path….only to chuck your lot in your middle age(44)as not finding a suitable blackwoman…smh.

Also, what you and most blackmen fail to realize is that your choices are one of the major reasons why the black community is in disarray…whether you choose to believe it or not. What you and your likes forget is that the future and survival of a people/community lies on the shoulder of it’s men on how they conduct and comports themselves. There’s no doubt someone will come here and start comparing men to women. Men are suppose to lead and have a strong disposition to weather the current and protect their community.

You must also bear in mind it is a man that has to ask a woman for her hand in marriage, if blackmen aren’t taking that step/chance, there goes the abyssmal state of the black community as it is today. Sound and strong family foundation is what holds and binds a people….if men keep taking to female disposition, it’s going to get worse than it is today. Every other ethnic group that comes to this country, are sustaining themselves through family bonds, and they view marriage as an expectation and the continuity of the family foundation, and the collective betterment of their community and people.

Most of the time these other ethnic groups take consideration of their overall family and community image into account first and foremost when they act, as oppose to individual wants….’cos the expectations of the overall community should always trump that of the individual. Marriage=strong family/community foundation……men should be men (blackmen)!

]]> By: FJ1000 https://thyblackman.com/2011/04/14/the-state-of-black-love/comment-page-1/#comment-2514 Thu, 14 Apr 2011 20:05:49 +0000 http://thyblackman.com/?p=5036#comment-2514 Black love and the status of the black family is at a new low, its bascially a joke.

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