Being the other woman.

Tweet (ThyBlackMan.com) First let me start off by saying this a fictional writing and has nothing to do with the actual writer herself. I hated her, despised her thought she was the worse woman on this earth until one day I realized that my own arc enemy had become me. Now don’t get me wrong sleeping with, laying with or any kind of copulation with... [Read more...]

There Are 2 Reasons He Cheats.

Tweet (ThyBlackMan.com) Next to “why did Adam eat the apple?” I swear this is the oldest question in the world. “Why did he cheat?” Like to hear it; here we go. One. There must be a woman willing to cheat with him (that’s easy). Two. He must give in to temptation. That’s it. It has nothing to do with him not loving his girlfriend/spouse.... [Read more...]

When Black Men are Jealous of Their Black Women.

Tweet (ThyBlackMan.com) Black Love.  It begins simply enough: you are everything he says he ever wanted.  You are smart, independent, charming, sexy, and a suitable representative of the two of you. You are able to bring thoughts, opinions, and ideas to the union. You are not dead weight that he has to think for, do for, and support without assistance. ... [Read more...]

“Say It Loud: I’m Pregnant, Ratchet & Proud”

Tweet (ThyBlackMan.com) So recently on Twitter, Amber Rose said that she “loves it when Wiz calls her his baby mama because it makes her feel ratchet and she likes it.” One of the definitions of the word ratchet according to the Urban Dictionary is: (adjective) a term for someone that is either; 1. A whore 2. Dirty/Nasty 3. Ghetto as HELL 4. Annoying 5.... [Read more...]

Why Gun Control Has Nothing to Do With the 2nd Amendment.

Tweet (ThyBlackMan.com) The Second Amendment clearly states that citizens of the United States have the right to “keep and bear arms” for “traditionally lawful purposes.” But while the objective of the Second Amendment is noble, this right, as evident in the many cases of murder in both the country’s urban and rural areas, can become abused... [Read more...]

How To Get A Man To Marry You.

Tweet (ThyBlackMan.com) Let me help you out for a minute ladies. Do you want to know how to get a man to marry you? It’s simple: you make yourself indispensable to that man’s life. Make his life better by your presence. Have a pleasant disposition. Be loyal. Be cooperative, not contrary. It’s inevitable that sometimes you’ll... [Read more...]

When Love Kills.

Tweet (ThyBlackMan.com) Last week, I shared my story of abuse in “When Love Hurts” however it doesn’t stop there.  What happens when the woman has done everything within the legal frames of the law to secure the safety of not only herself but her children as well? What happens when the legal system fails? Originally I wanted to share my story... [Read more...]

Black Woman, When Love Hurts.

Tweet (ThyBlackMan.com) As little girls we all dream of the house, husband and picket white fence. We have that vision emblazed in our minds and we hold on to it well into our adult lives. Living, each day praying and hoping that true love comes. And for many of us true love or what think is love period can prove to be deadly. I can remember like yesterday... [Read more...]

No Weakness Allowed – The Perils of Being a Strong Woman.

Tweet (ThyBlackMan.com) Doesn’t every woman fancy herself the strong one. The one who is able to endure all things.  Independent when single. A true partner when committed.  No dead weight. As a help mate, she will drag her man out of the fire if necessary, figuratively speaking.  She can contribute to the solution, offer conscientious insight... [Read more...]

Willie Lynch’s Jump Off: Black Women and Stockholm Syndrome.

Tweet (ThyBlackMan.com) Stockholm syndrome, or capture-bonding, is defined as “a psychological phenomenon in which hostages express empathy and have positive feelings towards their captors, sometimes to the point of defending them. These feelings are generally considered irrational in light of the danger or risk endured by the victims, who essentially... [Read more...]

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