(ThyBlackMan.com) If you feel like you are always on the lookout for someone new to date, then it could be that you’re not too sure about what you are looking for. You might not have a particular ‘type,’ which is all very well. But you also might not have an idea about the person that you are looking for and the personality traits that you find attractive. If you are currently single, then could this be the reason why? Another reason could be because you are too focused on what your partner should be like, rather than focusing on what you should be like. If you’re always thinking about what others should do for you, and always thinking that your partner should be funny, smart, generous, and so on, then you might need to start looking at yourself; are you all of those things?
If you find that you aren’t all of those things, then it is time to make some changes. You can’t expect a girlfriend to always look good and take care of herself if you’re not doing so either. When you are all the
things that you are looking for, you’ll be much more likely to attract the kind of partner that you are looking for. If you’ve often found yourself thinking about how to get your ex-girlfriend back or you just want to de dating again, then making some changes to yourself could be the way to start. Here are some steps that you can take, to become the kind of person that you would want to be with.
Become More Driven
If you think that someone who is motivated and driven is sexy as hell, then guess what, the chances are that other people think this too! If you can become more driven and ambitious, then no doubt there will be girls out there that find it an attractive quality. If your partner is constantly inspiring you, then you need to be able of offer inspiration back. You don’t have to become an entrepreneur or University professor to be driven or ambitious, though. Just set yourself goals, and then work your way towards achieving them. That is much more attractive than someone that is a little lazy and includes napping as one of their hobbies.
Learn To Be Honest
In any relationship, honesty is really important. You want an honest answer to things ranging from do you like my new hair, to did you cheat on me? But the thing is, if you’re not the most honest person, then you can hardly expect honesty in return. You need to look for the truth in yourself, before getting it from others.
Be Present
You need to remember that you’re an adult now, not a middle-schooler too concerned about ‘that chase’ of dating. You need to learn to be open, honest, and upfront about how you feel. Be present and available; there is no need to be a jerk or play games for no reason. That can get old very quickly!
Staff Writer; Peter Rice