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Carmelo & LaLa Anthony are Done.

April 22, 2017 by  
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(ThyBlackMan.com) On the surface, it’s always a sad thing to see a marriage end. It’s even worse when one party, in this instance Carmelo Anthony, cheats on their spouse. Pregnancy is often a sure-fire way to confirm infidelity, and it can turn into a public mess. Many of women are siding with LaLa Anthony saying Carmelo how could you do this to her. That’s understandable, and again it’s a surface reaction. I can’t lie y’all…I think BOTH of them are wrong and have lost their minds. Anyone that has followed these two from the beginning knew that their marriage could be a recipe for destruction.

Like did it look like they got married for any other reason that their son? Then we must factor how the marriage began…on reality TV something was bound to happen. If two wrongs don’t make a right, but some are arguing don’t beat up on Carmelo Anthony, because LaLa Anthony has cheated also. Well, that is merely speculation, but this pregnancy could nail Carmelo’s credibility, if he had any, to the wall.

This drama isn’t new if one were to go back to the beginning. First of all, it looked like Carmelo Anthony wasn’t too sure about marrying LaLa. That was a rather lengthy engagement that resulted in the birth of their son. It does seem as though LaLa was insistent on marrying Carmelo Anthony who is five years younger than her. This is not a question of love, but one of maturity. That must be brought into play because the marriage has been shadowed by problems and a bit of controversy. Having your wedding covered by VH1 for a reality show is one thing…but the show is chronicling your marriage.

The show is following a marriage that might not have been founded on solid ground. I think it’s important to note Carmelo Anthony, unlike his wife, is NOT an entertainer…he is an athlete. So, let’s keep in mind she was not willing to leave New York and that has implications for his career…of which is currently having to deal with. As we saw with Kim Kardashian’s last marriage…athletes that are active in their sport might not be the best for reality TV. It seems their spouses don’t always understand how different the lifestyles are.

Whether or ones’ spouse is supportive is never an excuse for cheating. The decision to cheat is never ok. With that being established it is also not okay to put ones’ spouse in a position of inadequacy. Yes, we can provoke our spouse into the arms of another when they are not a priority at home. This can cause a man or a woman to feel left out in their marriage and here comes the tempting party. Often time it’s not a physical issue but one of an emotional void that gets married folks caught up. Carmelo Anthony should not have stepped out on his wife, but unless LaLa is without fault in this I will stick to the principle that there are three sides to this story. I have a feeling that neither Carmelo Anthony nor LaLa Anthony is the right side. Let’s just hope they can be civil for the sake of their son.

Staff Writer; Adonicka Sassy


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