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What’s Your Purpose?

August 24, 2014 by  
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(ThyBlackMan.com) Why are you here? I don’t mean why are you here reading these words right now. Instead, why are you here on this planet at this time, born into the family you were born into, with your unique gifts and talents, with your experiences? There is indeed a reason you are here. It’s your purpose. Some call it your mission. We all have one. Our job is to discover what it is and live it.

I recall winning honors and awards in my previous career field, yet feeling a deep dissatisfaction with my work. Because I was good at my profession, the people around me assumed I was happy and purposeful. But deep down, I knew something was off. Life can have all the external accolades of success, but if there is no purpose to what you are accomplishing, you’ll feel a black hole – an empty place in your soul that wants true fulfillment. That true fulfillment comes from knowing you are living on purpose.whatisyourpurpose-2014

One day, while coaching a client who was struggling to articulate her life’s mission, a question just rolled off my tongue: How is someone’s life better when they cross your path? She immediately began describing her mission, “Well, I am a bridge builder who connects people, ideas and resources, so a person’s life is better because I help them make the right connection.” Just like that. Crystal clear. She articulated her purpose. Over the years, this powerful question has helped many people get crystal clear about their purpose in life.

Without a lot of introspection and pondering, answer this question from your gut: How is someone’s life better when they cross your path?

We are all here for a reason – leaving the world in some way better than it would otherwise have been without us. The fun part is that we get to accomplish that mission using our own uniqueness – our gifts, strengths, passion and experiences. While you are likely not the only person in the world with your particular mission, you are the only one who can accomplish it the way you can. There are people you are uniquely equipped to impact. They connect with you. They are around you. They are impacted by you. Who will you connect and live out your purpose with today?

I challenge you to take a moment and answer this question with one simple sentence: How is someone’s life better because they cross your path? If you have trouble answering it, chat with the people in your life who know you best. Sometimes your impact comes so easily to you that it’s difficult for you to recognize it. But the people whom you are impacting will know. Ask them. 


Write your personal mission statement. 

Written by Valorie Burton

Official website; http://www.ValorieBurton.com



One Response to “What’s Your Purpose?”
  1. Dathan hall says:

    I really liked what was said,I’m one of those black men that has loss his way in life because I had my eyes on all the wrong things and that has put me off course in life.i know why I’m here and will start doing that.its hard for me when I see all of the people in the world doing bad,sometimes I feel like there’s not enough good people or people doing the right thing to make a differents.lack of love and every one only looking out for them self.life has shown me that you may not always like what happens to you or in life,but stand up on your feet.alot of things that happend to me where not always my falt but I still had to deal with them.i want to ask u to keep me in your prayers the devil is trying to brake me.and he’s using people to do it.he knows that I got a heart.he also knows I’m god son and so since he can’t take my soul,he’s trying to make my life on earth hard.alot of people wounder why things are not going right in there life and it’s because of how there living.

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