Psychological Torture: Angry Lover or Mental Terrorist?

Like
Like Love Haha Wow Sad Angry

(ThyBlackMan.com) With this article II want to go into a subject that is close to my heart because this has happened to me personally ( But I have found a Solution ). Everyone has heard the phrase ” Women using kids as Weapons to hurt the father “ . At one time I did not fully understand what that meant but now I fully understand the entire concept. Relationships are not always perfect because not many people were raised and taught to understand human relations. This goes especially with young people of all races , and with a lack of understanding we sometimes hurt each other physically and mentally.  

I myself have hurt women both ways in my youth coming from a family that was all about domestic violence and mental abuse. So when I started dating   I emulated the figures in my life and the way they dealt with women. I see now that their way was totally wrong but that was all I had togirlmugshot1 go on at that time. So I became a woman user and abuser and I really had no respect for women until I met my first child’s mother. This is where my attitude was confronted and I was forced to look at my behavior and put in serious effort to change. 

Although she would say that her treatment of me was justified , and In some areas I would agree. But When a Child is involved the rules of revenge change and a child is not a tool or a weapon of war. I feel that if you belittle a child to such a thing you have gone completely insane in your pursuit for revenge. I know , that women are not physically capable to fight a man head on to get even with him. So most often they use their mind to find a way to attack a person – and I would argue that psychological warfare is more severe than physical fighting. 
 
( Why ? ) Flesh and bone will heal but psychological damage can destroy you completely and disable your ability to function in life. I have to say that not all fathers are susceptible to this type of torture because some fathers don’t care as deeply for their child or the mother. But in the case of those fathers that do care , caring may be a detriment to him because that care is whats being used as a means to torture him psychologically. But there is hope for fathers who are cut off from their children , fathers who’s children have been turned against him by the mother. Because if this situation is causing you distress and anguish you can contact a psychologist and report the stress you are going through. ( In this day in age a Psychologist on hand is Much Needed , because most conflicts are taking place on a psychological level )
 
Then you can take that doctor’s report to the courts and argue that this situation of not having contact with your kids is torturing you mentally. And these women sometimes feel as though nothing can be done about their behavior but that is not true at all. To use a child as a psychological weapon is a serious offence if you can prove that it is causing you mental damage – and that’s where a doctor comes in. So to those good fathers that are victims of this abuse , I say do not take it , things will not get better because it is a power issue on the woman’s part. And no one is going to willingly give up their power , but on the flip side she is committing a crime. 
 
Torture is not just going on in a military war , it is going on in the lives of people in society – on a mental level. And yes men engage in these types of things too but this article is addressing the women that use this method against the good and caring fathers. And if these fathers can prove that he is indeed a good father and he is under this type of cruel punishment – there are severe consequences for these women. Because they have moved from simply being angry – to the level of a terrorist that is using psychological warfare to in all fairness , make the father kill himself. 
 
( Note : )
Fathers Take Your Case To Court , What is Happening To You is Torture . And Physical and Mental Torture is A Serious Crime. And the person inflicting it on you is a Criminal.  
 
Staff Writer; King Muhammad