(ThyBlackMan.com) With this article II want to go into a subject that is close to my heart because this has happened to me personally ( But I have found a Solution ). Everyone has heard the phrase ” Women using kids as Weapons to hurt the father “ . At one time I did not fully understand what that meant but now I fully understand the entire concept. Relationships are not always perfect because not many people were raised and taught to understand human relations. This goes especially with young people of all races , and with a lack of understanding we sometimes hurt each other physically and mentally.
I myself have hurt women both ways in my youth coming from a family that was all about domestic violence and mental abuse. So when I started dating I emulated the figures in my life and the way they dealt with women. I see now that their way was totally wrong but that was all I had to go on at that time. So I became a woman user and abuser and I really had no respect for women until I met my first child’s mother. This is where my attitude was confronted and I was forced to look at my behavior and put in serious effort to change.
Note : A Father can Petition the Court to have your child get counseling if you feel that the battle between you and the mother is harming the child mentally. It is a good thing to do because parent bashing can lead to the child doing it when they get kids with a spitful Ex-lover.
Note : If you seek a psychiatrist in this case and it is found that you have developed mental damage from this situation. know that your mental health can be used as a means to lable you a danger. But know also that it is another means to prolong the mental torture and keep you from your child. KEEP your dispute LEGAL at all Costs ! ! !