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“Jeremy Meeks…Give Us That Thug Love”

June 20, 2014 by  
Filed under News, Opinion, Relationships, Weekly Columns

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(ThyBlackMan.com) You know there are some days where I’m embarrassed to be a woman. Today is one of those days. The mugshot of Jeremy Meeks has gone viral and the comments from WOMEN are vulgar and disgusting.  On some sites his picture has gotten 45K likes and even up to over 200K likes.

His charges are as follows:

“The 30-year-old Stockton, CA convicted felon is being held on $900,000 bail for illegally possessing firearms and ammo, carrying a loaded firearm in public and criminal street gang activity.  The specific charge is street terrorism.”

In addition to the comments on the picture, I’ve read comments of women stating the sexually explicit things they would do to him, how they love thugs and want to have his babies.JeremyFacebookMeeks-2014

And we have the nerve to complain about the lack  of good men!  Apparently we aren’t looking for a good man. We want that thug love. That thug passion.  The Bad Boy.

This is very telling of the state of mind that women have today. We  are very  forward.  We are thirsty.  We are sexually aggressive.  And of course this showcases another form of hypocrisy.  We chatise Men for their reaction to women and their looks and here we are fawning over a criminal!

We’d be all over men if the roles were reversed. We’d call them dogs, berate them and of course remind them that this is why good women are being passed over but we are to busy passing ourselves to bad boys to notice the good men.

And if a criminal catches our eye and makes us lose control it’s very easy to see how we end up in dysfunctional relationships with multiple baby daddies.  It doesn’t take much. Be attractive.  Be a thug. Have no ambition but I’ll have your babies. ..then I’ll complain about the bum I laid down with knowing you were a bum when I met you.

Good men are an afterthought after we let the bad boys run through us. Give us children.  Sit around our house while WE pay the bills. Get disrespected. Then after we have a high body mileage we want the good man. We want him to play Daddy to the children we had with the bad boy or bad boys.  The same men we mocked,  we turn and  look for them to marry us.

So we look for the cream of the crop,  to wife up bottom feeders.  And I say bottom feeders because we were fueled by our lower selves.

“One user has set up a Facebook fan page for Meeks, who is being held in the San Joaquin County Jail on $900,000 bail.”

This is what we’re willing to do for a CRIMINAL. ..but let our Baby Daddy be behind on his child support…we’d show him NO mercy.

Staff Writer; Nojma Muhammad
 
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10 Responses to ““Jeremy Meeks…Give Us That Thug Love””
  1. anonymous says:

    …and as you can clearly see, it is a white woman who chose to marry the so-called thug. Why is it that we won’t say white women (or other races or ethnicities) run after thugs? Look at the celebrity thugs and bad boys. I see every other race willing to be with these men regardless of their negative reputation. So WHY IN THE WORLD does the black woman have to have the lion’s share of the bad press?!!

  2. anonymous says:

    I have a problem with the assumption that the women fawning are mostly black. Why are we always so ready to crystalize a negative perception of our own race? PLEASE STOP IT!!!

  3. toomanygrandkids says:

    or prison for upteen years, which explained the large % of black females/women infected with STD’s, including HIV/AIDS. Back in the 80’s-90’s, I remember black females laughing, even bragging about having an STD as if it was no big deal. Like it was normal. I knew then nothing has changed nor gotten any better among these types of females. That’s why I don’t refer to them as “women” nor do I have any sympathy for them when they get an STD, even if it’s HIV.

  4. toomanygrandkids says:

    Great article! When I heard this story on the news, I wasn’t the least bit surprised. For as long as I can remember, black females (especially) have been supporting thugs and their behavior. It excites ’em and pumps up their adrenaline. Gives ’em something to talk/brag about among each other. What I also noticed about females who know they are messing around with the same thug(s) is that they have a love/hate relationship with each other and the thug(s).

    Whenever they are mad at their bad boy, females will tell details about their relationship with this loser but then when all is good between them, these same females can’t stand each other. I’ve heard so many of these females say how they give him money or put money on his books when he’s behind bars. These stupid ass females give most of their money to the courts then complain about a corrupt gov’t. They don’t seem to take in consideration that these thugs are the real reason why they are so broke.

    This dude committed these crimes along with three other dudes who are black. Annette Harrison is right. Browner- Darker-skinned thugs regard lighter-skinned males as “not black enough,” so the lighter-skinned thug feels he must show that he’s “down” or “all about the streets.” But in reality, many lighter skinned males have just as much as a thug mentality as any other thug. No matter is shade/color.

    Adam is also correct. Dizzy and confused females wouldn’t know/recognize a decent man if he walked up and introduced himself. The reason is because they don’t want a man with standards, boundaries, and a clear meaning of himself. Decent black men aren’t confused like these thug-lovin females. Whenever they hear a decent black man speak well, they will mock him, behind his back, of course. But that just goes to show that these females ARE NOT real women. So decent black men don’t want/need them anyway.

    It doesn’t even dawn on these females that thugs/criminals have unprotected sex while in jail

  5. Realman2 says:

    Black community has been the in the sewer for a long time. I have known more sorry black women the author talks about than good ones. She nails it on head regarding how theses same sistas will whore themselves out to thugs, then accumulate a litter of children by multiple scumbags and then demand good men, the same men she looked down on to marry her and raise and financially pay for all of her children.

  6. Adam:

    Nojma did make many valid points when it comes to women that have low self-esteem. However, surly not all women and certainly not all black women would be this young man’s fancy’s fool.

    And what is so amazing about his story is that he is half white; yet, society has picked him a race based upon his poor choices to affiliate with black gang members.

    Now I’m getting ready to step on a few toes because I’m not being politically correct here but . . . It seems to me this young man is very confused. He is just as confused as the young women that have made themselves look foolish for wanting to procreate with a criminal.

    It’s clear to see he mentally identifies with his mother’s race. And his behavior clearly shows social acceptance was hard for him; therefore, he turned to the streets for validation. Where at some point he had to of been exploited because of his racial outcast status. And for those that live in a perfect world and want to believe that racism doesn’t exists, pull head out of dark warm spot! I can only imagine that his lighten brown skin and his blueish eyes denoted he would be and is a social outcast.

    And now his white mother with a socially deemed black son is trying to raise money for her child’s legal defense. As silly women, and foolish black women, write off-beat comments to a married man that has been charged with criminal activity. LOL’s. And what makes this story really hilarious is that many of these misguided women are donating money for his legal expenses! LOL’s. And if he should get out jail on a technicality . . . he’s going home to roll in the sheets with his white wife! LOL’s. Talk about stupidity at its finest! LOL’s.

    It’s clear to see that these women ain’t got the good sense God gave an ant! Because if they are going to help a man get out of jail because he is cute, at least they should have sense enough to financially help a cute man that is going to come home to them! LOL’s.

    And count yourself highly favored these blessed yet foolish stupid women aren’t looking at you!

  7. stopit says:

    I don’t think folks are going crazy over the fact that he is a criminal or a perceived “thug” Its merely over his model good-looks. And we don’t even know if he is guilty. Good looks have always and will always garner this kind of reaction. They would have the same reaction no matter what he has chosen to do with his life. Doing or being accused of doing bad things does not make you look any different on the outside. If you are gorgeous then you are gorgeous.

  8. Peerless Perception says:

    Speak on it Sister! “A thing of beauty is a joy forever.” Maybe my man John Keats should’ve elaborated that beauty is a thing to OGLE @ forever. I was taught that “beauty is fleeting & charm is deceptive…” Obviously our Brother in the pic wasn’t given qualitative tools & taught quantitative methods to succeed. This instant gratification generation is drawn to the aesthetics, but that Brother is devoid the Knowledge of Self & the Sista’s who are fawning over him are complicit in their own degradation.

  9. Adam says:

    Nojma,

    You are a genius. An absolute and utter genius. Totally agree with you. One of the major problems in our community and in the world at large, is women having relationships with these thugs.

    In our community specifically, we have a very sad cycle. Not all but far too many of our women are hooking up with these kinds of thugs. Decent black men, like myself, who have good jobs and have never been to prison have trouble attracting black women. Far too many of woman consider a black man who went to college, speaks proper English and has a good 9-5 job making decent money a “cornball.” He is “not down with the street” and doesn’t have “swag.” These women hookup with these losers and have babies. The thugs leave. Sometimes they repeat this a few times, having different babies by different thugs. Then later when they get older, these women cry about how there are “no good black men.” These babies grow up and while they don’t always end up in trouble, it is a statistical fact ladies, as much as you may argue with me, that children do better generally in a two parent household as opposed to a one parent household. Then these kids grow up and repeat the cycle. Just utterly and totally tragic.

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