(ThyBlackMan.com) Let me put it this way, if such a man exist I have not met him yet. For auguement sake, let us define platonic relationship before we really make up our minds whether or not it’s possible to be just friends with a guy. In the dictionary a platonic relationship is define as, “a pure, spiritual affection, subsisting between persons of opposite sex, unmixed with carnal desires, and regarding the mind only…” Frankly speaking, I have never met a man who did not want to have canal experiences with me, and I’m no Halle Berry.
More importantly, I read that a “New research suggests that there may be some truth to this possibility—that we may think we’re capable of being “just friends” with members of the opposite sex, but the opportunity (or perceived opportunity) for “romance” is often lurking just around the corner, waiting to pounce at the most inopportune moment.” Need I say more?
Their only argument was: if you want to know about men, you ask a man. That may be true to some degree, and I will admit that I did get some good advise from Steve Harvey’s book: Act Like a Lady Think Like a Man, but let’s not forget a man will be a man, and given the chance he will sleep with you.