Relationship Issue – Sex…

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(ThyBlackMan.com) Did your partner lose interest in sex? Did he even go for some weeks without even cuddling or touching you? In our world full of sexual imagery, it is quite strange for some people to stop wanting to have sex. This is one of the issues that most couples are facing: low sex drive.

Common sexual issues between couples:

Different levels of sexual desire This issue is very common in relationships. One person may want to have sex more often than the other which can lead to resentment and even arguments. The partner who wants  more sex might feel rejected and the other partner who wants less will feel pressured.

Not enough romance and intimacy – It is necessary to maintain intimacy and romance in your relationship.  This reassures each partner that they still love each other and builds trust.  Taking each other for granted and not nurturing your relationship can cause big problems.

Physical problems such as maintaining erection or reaching orgasmThere are different reasons why people lose interest in sex.  One might reach orgasm sooner while the other still wants or need more foreplay. Physical problems can be brought about by low self-esteem, medical conditions and mental health issues.  Seek appropriate help in order to deal with these issues.

Sex life has been monotonous, uninspiring or so routineIntimacy plays an important role even if a couple is not having sex. It is also helpful to talk to your partner on how to add excitement as well as share your sexual fantasies. Communicate to your partner about what you wanted him to do and things that he needs to stop doing. Try to discover new things about sex and how to add some spice to the usual things you do.

You sex life has completely stoppedThere are times that you have to forego sex altogether.  These include during the latter part of pregnancy, after giving birth, or during stress and illness. However, it is not normal if it has stopped for no reason at all.  The reason could be medical, an underlying physical or emotional problem or worse, infidelity.  Address this immediately in order to rescue your relationship.

A healthy sex life binds a romantic relationship. Honesty and telling your partner how you feel is one of the best parts of a relationship. Too often we forget that sex is not only an act of physical intercourse but is also a way of emotionally expressing how you feel to your partner.  Remember that it is crucial to discuss sex issues in your relationship in order to keep it healthy and alive.

Head Writer; Thomas Jones, Jr.